I Forgive You.

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”

Mahatma Gandhi

The act of forgiveness is something everyone can learn, though it usually takes time. The first step is to have a full understanding of what forgiveness means.  The bare essence of forgiveness, is being willing to give up the resentment and the desire to punish, and to give up the anger that you feel concerning a person or an act. It does not mean you have to condone what was done to you or that you need to forget it happened.

I learned that forgiveness is not the same thing as forgetting.

If you're holding on to the pain of past events practice acceptance. While you can't change the past, you can decide to relegate the event to history by accepting that it happened and releasing your resentment. No matter what anyone does to you, no one can take away from you your capacity to do GOOD. You lose it only by willingly giving it up yourself.

GOOD BYE, MICHAEL JACKSON

Michael Jackson was born on August 29, 1958. As the seventh child of the Jackson family, Michael Jackson became a childhood icon for his music, dancing, and redefinding music history.  The king of pop, will live for ever in the hearts and souls of his most faithful fans around the world.

Michael Jacson the person: Talented, Gifted genius, Tireless dedicated.

Michael the performer: Magnificent, Mesmerizing moonwalk.

On June 25, 2009, Michael Jackson collapsed at his home in Holmby Hills. He was pronounced dead at the UCLA Medical Center several hours after his collapse and subsequent cardiac arrest. We will miss your passion and the many gifts you bestowed through music. Thank you for the happiness you brought into our lives via song, dance, and your upbeat spirit.

OUR CHILDREN ARE THE FUTURE

A child with a good self-esteem has the confidence to try new things, make friends, and have a stronger relationships with you and others. Warm-loving communication between you and your child enhances the relationship and helps avoid behaviour issues. Your child may know you care about them through your loving attention, but it takes extra effort to keep giving that message once they're away from you all day at school.

The sort of attention you give will change in subtle ways as your child matures and their needs change. These are some important steps you can practice to guide and improve your child's selfesteem. Acknowledge your child's feelings, and help them express them self. Accept any fears or insecurities your child expresses as genuine; Even if they seem trivial to you, don't just brush them aside.

Practise active, reflective listening, make sure you understand and give positive prompts to encourage your child to continue. Remember the things you say about yourself can change your child's self-esteem. If you practice good examples of a positive, optimistic attitude to life and how to handle problems your child will be willing copying the same attitude .